We all have dogs because it pleases us and we feel good about having them. One way or another, dog ownership satisfies one or more of our specific needs. The problem is when we don’t realize it or don’t want to admit it. When we do, we are grateful, we know that we are in debt to them and we want to pay them back (or forward), preferably with dividends. When we don’t, we fall into a series of pseudo explanations, easy interpretations, knee-jerk solutions—and that’s abuse.
I have a deep respect for all life independently of species and race. It appears to me that the dog/owner relationship, in this one aspect, should not be much different from any other relationship, be it with a spouse, a lover, a friend, a parent, a child. We should be content with what we get and not ask for what we can’t get. We should never take any relationship for granted. Every new day should be one more day we should feel privileged to share with that particular living being.
At least, that’s how I see it.
Have a great day!
R-
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Cherish The Individual
This article reveales what is a common problem of dog ownership- lack of respect. People forget that our dogs' are individuals, with minds and feelings of their own. They forget that the relationship should be a partnership, and that sometimes compromise is needed.
I often have my clients write down their expectations of their relationship with their dog, some of the lists I get are truely astonishing! For any other professionals out there, do the same thing, you will be amazed at what some people expect of their dogs.
Despite this, I really do believe that most expectations can be met, over time, and with the correct advice. This is where we (professionals) have a wonderful opportunity and to be greatful that clients come to us for help. This is where we can make a difference. This is where we are privileged.
Katarina
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Katarina, what a great
Katarina, what a great idea! I volunteer in animal rescue and I think this would be a very good question to add to our application. Thanks for the tip!
Expectations
Yes, Katarina, "most (reasonable) expectations can be met over time, and with the correct advice." Yet, it appears to me, that no expectations (if possible), just being happy with what we get along the road, would transmit us a special sense of peace and freedom. I'm afraid that expectations may foster dispointment, a sense of failure, an unfulfilled longing; and that, maybe even more crucially, they dim our view of the relationship.
Whether it is possible to teach dog owners to enjoy their dogs without expectations, I don't know.
Keep smiling,
R-
I believe in giving back by
I believe in giving back by volunteering in shelters. To be honest, I haven't been doing too well financially. I had no idea that veterinarian expenses could get so huge. I was forced to make a choice between going into credit card debt and putting my best friend down. Still, I don't think she's in debt to me. She is family and I would have done the same for my child if I had one. I heard that there is a new legislation which allows pet owners to take vet expenses off their taxes. Not that this is a huge benefit but every bit helps. In the mean time we're looking into some debt relief solutions. Life is full of emergencies but I'm glad that every time things will improve eventually.
This is a great question
This is a great question that all dog owners should ponder before even getting a dog. Some don't take everything into consideration, like bi-daily walks and all the attention a dog necessitates, which is part of the reason so many are turned over to shelters or left on the streets only to be euthanized. In my priorities list, the #1 reason I have my dog is for companionship. She loves me unconditionally and doesn't pass judgement on superficial aspects of my existence. The second reason I have her is because I'm scared of owning a gun to protect myself and don't want to take my chance with home alarm systemswhich don't always work perfectly. Katrina (my golden retriever) barks anytime someone comes to the door or if the gas man comes to the side of the house. She wouldn't get anyone get into the house without an ear-full of aggressive barking and growling. Sometimes it can be tough to not have someone to talk to, but Katrina is always great for a good snuggle!
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