Laurie C Willia... | Mon, 08/17/2009 - 08:51
The other day, a friend asked me what's the nicest, most tactful way to tell his good friend that her dog is driving him nuts. He says her dogs are very badly behaved, completely out of control, are terrible beggars, and even jump in his lap and try to steal his food when they're sitting at the dinner table. And yet his friend does nothing. It's getting so bad he really doesn't want to visit her anymore, but he really likes his friend and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. In this case, I definitely consider myself fortunate to be in a position where people not only expect but pay me to tell them when their dogs need training. But what about someone who isn't a dog trainer? How should he or she handle this delicate situation? Darn, if ever there was an occasion for a Hallmark card, this is it! I really don't see this as much different than instances where you don't like a friend's spouse or significant other, kids,